Monday, November 4, 2013

Gathered, Given, Good. (four)

(Day four of the November Joy Dare)
 12. Gathering the laundry every Monday and Friday! :) I love having clean clothes.


 13. My older brother, away at graduate school, giving his time to text me about a paper I am writing & to chat about memories. :)







14. This good essay written by one of my family members! :)



There are a total of 1.9 billion children in the world; out of that large number, one-hundred-fifty million are disabled. A disability can mean a physical or mental challenge. It has a wide range of categories such as down-syndrome and many different forms of autism. Many children with disabilities are born that way; although many have also gone through accidents or sicknesses and never recovered. It is very hard for a parent to take care of a disabled child, which sometimes causes parents to neglect them or worse. These children show a lot of weakness, but God uses them in a very special way!

In a generation or two Europe will have a perfect society, no disabled or handicapped children among them. Already there are very few disabled there. This is not because of coincidence but purely the sinful nature of man. Man has ignored God’s plan for families; we have exchanged the pure joy of having a family handpicked by God for the assurance of being able to have a mentally and physically perfect family. Some families choose life for their disabled children, yet they put them up for adoption.

It is very hard to adopt a disabled child, but Jesus said in Leviticus 19:14 “Thou shalt not curse the deaf, nor put a stumbling block before the blind, but shalt fear thy God: I am the Lord.”  Jesus urges us to take care of the disabled. We have the responsibility to love the unloved and to want the unwanted. You don’t have to take care of or adopt a physically or mentally ill child to make a difference, you can just simply take the time to appreciate them and talk to them even if they can’t talk to you. You can be a beacon of light to them even just by not ignoring them. Give them hugs and ask them questions.

I am very passionate about this topic, because there are so many children and even teenagers around us that are looked down upon because of their differences. Many people have seen it firsthand.  I knew a girl with down-syndrome that was always often ridiculed. Sadly, not once did I defend her, but looking back I know I should have. These children show us their complete love and affection. Can we not give them the same in return?

God places disabled children in our life to remind us of our relationship with him. All we can give God is our love; in the same way all that disabled children can offer us is their love. Although these children are very fragile, they show us how to look past each other’s weaknesses and look into hearts. Disabled people have such simple faith and often teach us very important lessons. However, we must realize that they are humans too and need friends and encouragement.
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